All About Our Family

November 26, 2014

Have you ever thought about the 6 things you want to do before you die? Well I have just the things for yourself.

1. eat

2. drink

3. plane ride

4. world’s of fun

5. get a phone

6. read

What do you believe or not believe in?

1. I  believe in God

2. I believe in what is right

3. I don’t believe in the Tooth Fairy, Santa or the Easter Bunny.

Have you ever had a moment you never want to forget?

One of my unforgettable moments actually happened today. I scared my sister and she screamed bloody murder. It was so funny!

That is an unforgettable moment I will never forget!

Thank you for reading my post!


November 8, 2014

Hi, Welcome to this post, I, Alyssa Flener wrote this post. thank you for reading this post.   I hope you enjoy this really great post.

my favorite grade is kintergarten. kintergarten is my fav. grade. beacuse i had the best teacher ever 🙂

Mommy guilt

August 20, 2014

Yep, mommy guilt.

You know that feeling after you sat your sweet babe in front of the TV for hours so you can scrub toilets?!?

Yep, that.

Well, today, for me…it was grocery shopping. With a 3-year-old boy.

We drove across town. Sprouts. Costco. Back across town. Unloaded. Then off to get the sisters from school.

Poor Chase.

It’s such a struggle! I try to bring my kids along for the adventures in grocery shopping and scrubbing toilets, but the guilt remains.

Why? These are all things that have to get done at some point in my day.

Maybe it’s because of our Pinterest-centered culture that makes me feel bad for not doing a craft with my kids every day and making their birthday parties look like something out of HGTV magazine.

Thank God for grace…not my daughter, Grace (although she’s fantastic too!!), but God’s unmerited favor that He gives me daily…hourly…every minute. Because I desperately need it.

So, while I let God’s grace cover my mommy guilt…Chase pretended a cantaloupe was his baby while we shopped in Sprouts, tasted every sample in Costco, and, when Daddy got home from work he shouted, “Daddy! I got pizza at Costco!!!”

Emotional mommy

August 13, 2014

This morning was a blur…

The kids all got up before their alarms, so anxious and ready for their first day of school. Getting out the door was not stressful because I had packed and planned the night before. All was well on the home front.

A friend and I planned a “coffee and cry” for the Kindergarten parents, so I was focused on all that I needed to do to make that happen…

Get out the door, pick up the coffee, get it to school, lug 5 gallons of coffee across the parking lot, set it up, mingle with kindergarten parents, and tear it all down.

I lost sight of the fact that I was also dropping my girls off for their first day of school.

Tear. Which became another tear. And another. And another. I was a mess.

Fortunately, I had plans to meet a few friends at Chic-fil-a, so I was distracted from the void I was feeling with the girls gone.

We picked the girls up this afternoon at the end of the day and they were beaming!! Fantastic day! Making new friends, learning new things and loving every minute.

Makes it worth the mommy heartache 🙂

Back to school again

August 11, 2014

Around this time every year I love the anticipation of a new school year. A fresh start. A new beginning. A chance to start over.

While this is all well and good, it still means sending my babies off to be exposed to things I cannot protect them from and be vulnerable to the insincere 1st and 3rd graders of our American suburb. (The majority are sweet, but you know what I mean!!) 😉

As much as I wish I could protect them from all the evil and wickedness of this world, I cannot. I must let go and trust God with His children that he entrusted Matt and I to raise.

Instead of worrying, I must pray. Instead of being anxious, I must trust.

Even though it’s hard for me to understand this fact…God loves Grave and Alyssa immeasurably more than I do.

Say what?!? Impossible. But true.

He is there when I am not…to protect, to guard, to shield, to love, to guide and to teach. He is there because they are His creation and His children and He loves them more than I can comprehend.

With that, I recognize my lack of control…and fall to my knees to pray.

That is the best thing I can do for my kids. And I will fight this fight with them!!

Only 1 “today”

January 5, 2014

A few days ago, I was having a conversation with our 5-year-old daughter, Alyssa. She was filling out a new calendar she got for Christmas and asking what our plans were for each day.

When she got into February, I became overwhelmed. “Alyssa, I don’t even know what we’re doing next week!”

So, she resolved to talk about our plans for that day, January 3rd. After many questions about the month, day and year, she said, “So, there’s only ONE January 3rd, 2014?!?!”


There IS only one January 3rd, 2014. And only one January 4th…and 5th…

You only have one shot at making today worthwhile. ONE SHOT. No do overs. No redoes. No second chances. Only one today.

This has challenged me to take captive every day…every hour…every minute…every conversation…every teachable moment…every text, phone call, Facebook message, and blog post…because it might be my only opportunity.

I’m trying my best to love this out and be an example for our kids not to waste their lives or a day or a moment. But, to seek first the Kingdom of God and follow Him even when it might not make sense to anyone else.

the night we met Tony

August 1, 2012

For Mother’s Day, Matt surprised me with Club Level tickets to the Rockies/Cardinals game.  Just us.  No kids.  Club Level.  This felt fancy for me.  Usually we have the kids in tow (which I love!) and we’re in the cheap seats (aka Rockpile, which is upper deck center field).  And, I have to get up and walk to right field to get my order of Monster Nachos.

Not this time…2nd level, no kids, a waiter to take our order, and just above the Cardinals dugout.  Couldn’t get any better.

We hired a baby-sitter (which is only the 2nd time EVER) and took off for the game a little early.  We parked, walked a few blocks, and made our way through the stadium, passed several rounds of security to get into the Club Level section, and found our seats.  Of course, this is after I got my sunscreen confiscated because they don’t allow aerosol cans in the stadium, but they were kind enough to give me a “claim ticket” to get it afterwards.

Our seats were on the aisle directly up from the Cardinal’s on-deck circle.  Again, thought I’d died and gone to Heaven.  We were thrilled to see that Cardinals fans were sitting in the seats next to us.  We immediately started chatting with them and found they had flown in from St. Charles for the Cards/Rox series and had never been to Denver before.  The girl behind us was from Springfield, IL, and worked at the ABC TV station there as a producer.  She now lives in Denver and is getting her master’s at UCD.  All of this to say, we were sitting by people who we had a lot in common with.  🙂

A few innings into the game, Todd Helton’s foul ball bounced a foot from Matt.  Unfortunately, it landed in someone else’s cup holder.

Shortly after that, the sweet couple from St. Charles went to the air-conditioned area in the Club Level to get something to eat.  They were gone for awhile, but upon their return they told us that Tony LaRussa was in the stadium!  They saw him on a TV screen with a bald man in one of the press boxes.  We had a great view of the press boxes (I had been keeping an eye on Al and Mike Shannon all night), so we were searching for Tony with no avail.  I kept glancing that way, hoping for a peek at Tony.  No such luck.

After cheering our Cards to an 11-6 victory, we said “goodbye” to our new baseball friends and headed toward the exit.  I was showering Matt with praise for the awesome tickets, how perfect everything was…fun people, a high scoring game, a Cards win, and on and on and on.  As we were walking through the air-conditioned hallway talking about our perfect evening, we look up and see a familiar face walking toward us.  It took us no time to realize who it was.  I tapped Matt’s arm with my scorecard and said in the side of my mouth, “Matt, there’s Tony LaRussa!”  He made DIRECT eye contact with us (I think he recognized Matt from TV, but Matt thinks he was just admiring our Cardinals attire).  We said, “Hey, how’s it going” and he said the same.  I was in shock.  I looked at Matt and said, “Let’s go get his autograph!”  He agreed, so I started digging in my purse for a pen as I moved closer to the former Cardinals manager.  Lucky for me, we had gone to the Broncos Training Camp practice the day prior and I still had the Sharpe marker in my purse from that event.

I came up behind him, put my hand on his back and said, “Excuse me, Tony (later Matt got on me for not calling him “Mr. LaRussa.”  I can’t believe it either!  I guess I wanted him to know he’s like family to us. haha), we are huge Cardinal fans and were wondering if we could get your autograph.”  He said, “of course!” and proceeded to sign the scorecard that I had just filled out.  Matt asked if he could take my picture with him and the “bald man” who was with him (and our friends had seen on TV) told Matt he’d take the picture so he could be in it too!  And, unlike the image he portrayed in post-game interviews, Tony is very kind!!

When we walked away, I felt like a little girl again.  I grew up going early and staying late at the Cardinal games to get the players’ autographs.  The thrill and excitement were vibrant in me again.  I was squealing and in disbelief.  I quickly called my brother and dad.  Looking back, I’m not sure I made a lot of sense on the phone.  I was beside myself and not thinking clearly.

I met Tony LaRussa. Unexpectedly.  Just walking through the halls with the common folk.  It made the “perfect” night even better.

The whole family is going to the game tonight.  It couldn’t possibly be more eventful than last night, but it will be so fun to continue to pass down the Cardinals baseball tradition to our kids!!

Go Cards!!


4 years old?!?

April 6, 2012

This is Alyssa…or “A-kissa” as we like to call her.  She’s full of love and full of kisses.

I’ve had a hard time with her turning 4.  Grace was 4 when we moved to Denver.  4-year-olds are big kids.  My sweet Alyssa is now a big kid.  🙂

  1. What is your favorite color? Pink
  2. What is your favorite food? Tilapia
  3. What do you want for your birthday dinner? Fish tacos and cooked carrots
  4. What do you want to do for your birthday party? Princess Tea Party
  5. What was your favorite part of the day? Hanging out with my friends
  6. Who are your favorite friends? Addison, Annie, Caroline, McKenna, Aspen, Willa and Lyla
  7. What are your favorite movies? Sound of Music and Annie
  8. What is your favorite cartoon? Super Why and Little Einsteins
  9. What is your favorite book? BOB books
  10. What is your favorite restaurant? McDonald’s
  11. What is your favorite thing to do outside? swing on the swingset
  12. What is the best thing about staying home with Mommy and Chase? spending time with Mommy and Chase
  13. What is your favorite thing for lunch? Peanut butter and jelly
  14. What is your favorite breakfast food? cereal
  15. Who is your favorite character in a movie? Belle
  16. What was your favorite present? everything
  17. Why are you so excited to be 4? Because I just am
  18. What is your favorite outfit? a dress or a skirt
  19. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas
  20. What is your favorite lovey/doll? Pillow Pet

While asking her these questions, she attacked my cheeks and arms with kisses.  That explains my sweet 4-year-old in a nutshell.  🙂


out and about

February 4, 2012

After the big storm, comes the big dig.  Trust me, I know…Matt shoveled yesterday morning after about 8 inches, but we hadn’t touched it since we got 8 more.  Being the good wife that I am (wink, wink), I thought it would be nice to have the driveway and sidewalk shoveled for Matt when he got home.  So, I put Chase down for a nap, popped a movie in for the girls, and headed outside.

I started with the sidewalk.  Not only is 16″ of snow heavy, but then you have to heave it more than 16″ to pile it on top of the snow in your yard.  Yikes.  It didn’t take long for me to wear out.  I did about half of the driveway and gave in.

After resting inside for a bit, the girls and I got bundled up to play in the backyard.  Fortunately, Chase took a (almost) 4 hour nap.  So, we trudged through the backyard, made snow angels, had a snow ball fight, and (my favorite part) built a snow tunnel.  It was awesome.

I did leave out our morning outing.  One of our new favorite things to do is go to Home Depot for the Kids Clinic.  On the first Saturday of the month, they have a kids craft that they can do.  Last month they made a log cabin piggy bank…this time it was a keepsake box.  Both times we met friends there and had a great time. I would highly recommend it!!

This morning while we were at Home Depot I got a text from my mom.  She assumed we were stuck inside and bored.  After I told her we had date night last night and were at Home Depot this morning, she said, “Oh, well here I was feeling sorry for you thinking you were stuck!”  haha  The plow trucks have done a fabulous job and we were never stuck.  Now, a friend told me that a few years ago Denver got 3 feet of snow and it shut down the city.  Here’s hoping that doesn’t happen again…  🙂

We have two main themes in our lives today…walking…and winter.  I’ll start with the later.

One thing we love about Denver, is the weather.  Before moving here, we thought the winters were cold, snowy and miserable.  We were wrong.  The winters are fantastic!!  Yes, they are cold.  Yes, they are snowy.  But, they are also sunny (which makes the temperature seem warmer) and about once a week we have a 50-60 degree day. 

After living here for almost two years, last night our first big snow came.  Until now we’ve had a few inches here and a few inches there.  But, in the past 24 hours, we’ve gotten over a foot of snow…and it’s still coming down with gusto!  Grace even had her first snow day from school.

We thoroughly enjoyed her snow day.  We played (in our jammies, of course!), watched movies, did crafts, organized some drawers and rested.  Because Matt is a TV anchor and reporter, he had to go out in the crazy snow and report to all of us what it was like out there!  He enjoyed every minute, actually.

Our other “big news” is that we have another walker in the house.  Yesterday afternoon, Chase was playing on the floor, stood up, and took about 5 steps towards me.  This continued the rest of the day and today too.  So, I have to accept that he’s officially walking.  I love it, don’t get me wrong.  It just freaks me out when I turn a corner and he’s walking toward me!  I still don’t expect it…

Check out my facebook page to see videos from our day…Chase walking and the girls doing their best news and weather broadcaster impressions.  As my dad said, we just need Chase to do sports and the Fleners could do a whole news broadcast!!  🙂